BE FREAKING RESPONSIBLE PARENTS!
Seriously people, if you are not able to take care of your kids yourself, DONT GIVE BIRTH to more than 1 kid! (OR RATHER, DONT GIVE BIRTH AT ALL!)
What I meant by taking care is normal daily routine of caring for your child. Taking care of them YOURSELF and maybe with some help at your own PLACE. Showering them with TLC and coaching them properly. Feeding them and showering them yourself. Not just throw at grandma's place almost 7 days a week and can don't visit them many days in a row! If the parents are super busy with work, I understand.
BUT, no. the mum is doing her freaking maternity leave and staying at her own mum's place so she can leave her newborn baby to her mother's care. What about the elder child? One kid at one grandma's place!
I seriously despise such people. AFTER giving birth to 2 kids, THERE ISN'T A SINGLE WEEK THAT SHE SPEND WITH THEM ALONE AT HER OWN PLACE (OR MAYBE I SHOULD SAY 3 CONSECUTIVE DAYS?!). Whenever they can, they will leave the kids at the grandparents house and sleep away at home! Be it the first child or currently both!
If you don't love kids in the first place, then DONT GIVE BIRTH. If they think that their kids are irritating and interuppting their rest, how about they are interuppting others TOO?!!
These kind of parents are just making people dislike them to the core and dislike their kids to the core cause they are just freaking irritating!
With the reason of the mum is currently taking a degree course, hence, no time for the kids, seriously, private degree course requires u to study every single day?! Best part is I seriously don't see how a private degree is going to help when you are working in a government sector which doesn't recognise the degree at all!!!!!
It is one's choice to study or have kids. But if you wanna do both at the same time, PLAN YOUR TIME! At least take care of them yourself during weekends and public holidays! Is that too much to ask for?! That is the most BASIC responsibility of being parents! If you cant take care of them during weekdays due to work committments, do so during weekends and PH! Don't just dump them at the grandparents place!
Having 2 kids and behaving like having none is such an irresponsible act! Dumping both kids at the grandparents place without hiring any extra help for the grandma is even worst! They didn't even consider that the grandma is getting on in years and have to take care of a newborn and a kid AND doing household chores are extremely tedious!
WHY DON'T THEY TRY DOING THAT?!
Freaking irresponsible parents!!!!
