BE RESPONSIBLE PARENTS!!!

BE FREAKING RESPONSIBLE PARENTS!

Seriously people, if you are not able to take care of your kids yourself, DONT GIVE BIRTH to more than 1 kid! (OR RATHER, DONT GIVE BIRTH AT ALL!)

What I meant by taking care is normal daily routine of caring for your child. Taking care of them YOURSELF and maybe with some help at your own PLACE. Showering them with TLC and coaching them properly. Feeding them and showering them yourself. Not just throw at grandma's place almost 7 days a week and can don't visit them many days in a row! If the parents are super busy with work, I understand.

BUT, no. the mum is doing her freaking maternity leave and staying at her own mum's place so she can leave her newborn baby to her mother's care. What about the elder child? One kid at one grandma's place!

I seriously despise such people. AFTER giving birth to 2 kids, THERE ISN'T A SINGLE WEEK THAT SHE SPEND WITH THEM ALONE AT HER OWN PLACE (OR MAYBE I SHOULD SAY 3 CONSECUTIVE DAYS?!). Whenever they can, they will leave the kids at the grandparents house and sleep away at home! Be it the first child or currently both!

If you don't love kids in the first place, then DONT GIVE BIRTH. If they think that their kids are irritating and interuppting their rest, how about they are interuppting others TOO?!!

These kind of parents are just making people dislike them to the core and dislike their kids to the core cause they are just freaking irritating!

With the reason of the mum is currently taking a degree course, hence, no time for the kids, seriously, private degree course requires u to study every single day?! Best part is I seriously don't see how a private degree is going to help when you are working in a government sector which doesn't recognise the degree at all!!!!!

It is one's choice to study or have kids. But if you wanna do both at the same time, PLAN YOUR TIME! At least take care of them yourself during weekends and public holidays! Is that too much to ask for?! That is the most BASIC responsibility of being parents! If you cant take care of them during weekdays due to work committments, do so during weekends and PH! Don't just dump them at the grandparents place!

Having 2 kids and behaving like having none is such an irresponsible act! Dumping both kids at the grandparents place without hiring any extra help for the grandma is even worst! They didn't even consider that the grandma is getting on in years and have to take care of a newborn and a kid AND doing household chores are extremely tedious!

WHY DON'T THEY TRY DOING THAT?!

Freaking irresponsible parents!!!!

Finally, Updates :)

It's been a good 6 months since I last wrote in this little space of mine.

I have been real busy with work, adjusting to new work timings and new environment. It has been good so far and I am surprised that I actually like my scope of work other than having to handle some real cheapos at times.

Time really flies and hubby is gonna get posted to US real soon. As in really really soon. Next weekend is our last weekend together *sobz* I just refuse to think about it now :((

Think I'll need some time to get used to him not being around :(( 

How I wish time will really flies past when he's not around so very soon I'll visit him in the states, follow by the completion of our little nest and he will be back!

How can I not mention my darling baby boy here? :)

He's such a big baby now! And of course, getting more and more adorable & handsome!

I was at Mdm Boo's place the other day and I was sleeping with baby boy. He is sooooooooo cute when he wakes up! Gosh! He would rolled over to find his huge pooh bear and give it a tight squeeze! He was all smiley and giggly! Totally melts me!

And, he's looking more and more like me! Hahahhaah! So charming! *ahem* Hahahah! I am always wondering if my own little baby (if I ever have one) will look this much like me? He has that very refined look and 'feel' that not many boys have!

Totally love him and love cuddling and kissing his ever-bouncy cheeks!

Having baby boy in our family is really god's gift. First time in my life, I can feel so much love for my darling baby. I can just look at him and I would like smile and feel so contented. Everything about him are mega cuteness and he's cute even when he's throwing a tantrum! He will just make a bad day seems much better :)

He's extremely lovable when he's in a kian kian mode! He would lie on my shoulder when I am carrying him and I just super love it and refuse to let him down even when my arm is aching like hell. 

Well, time to end my post and I'll try to blog more :)